Joseph Bayless is the great great grandfather of my husband. I have been searching for information about him and his family for over a year now, but without much success. I should clarify, I have found information about his wife and seven children, just not Joseph himself. I am sure part of my problem is my inexperience in the world of genealogy and knowing where I should be looking.
My 'brick walls' with Joseph come in the beginning of his life (I have no information about where he was born, who his parents were, if he had any siblings, or other extended family in America, before his marriage to great great grandmother Clara) and at the end. I have no idea when he died, how he died, or where.
This is what I do know. My first 'paper trail' with Joseph begins with his marriage to Clara Josephine Scherer on May 31, 1854 in Hamilton County, Ohio. Trying to piece together the puzzle with the bits and pieces of information that I have has led to some speculation on my part. I don't know that Joseph and Clara were living in Cincinnati at the time of their marriage, but their first two children were born in Cincinnati in 1857 and 1859. My husband comes through their oldest child, George Joseph born in 1857. By 1860 they were living in Evansville, Vanderburg, Indiana. On the 1860 census they are living with a family by the name of Dorff. I have not been able to determine if there is any family relationship between the two families. Joseph is listed as 'cook' and Mr. Dorff as steward, so I assume they were working together. I also assume that they were both employed working on a steamboat.(This assumption comes from the 1880 census where it states that Joseph is a steward on a steamboat.) During the 10 year span between 1860 and 1870 Joseph and Clara have three daughters. I contacted the Evansville Catholic Archives, but they were unable to locate any baptisimal records for any of the girls. That was a huge disappointment because I had high hopes of finding either Bayless or Scherer family members as god-parents. Sometime after 1870 the family moves to St. Louis, Missouri. They are on the 1880 census for St. Louis, but their last two children were born in St. Louis, 1874 and 1878, so they definitely arrived before 1880. This is where I lose all contact with Joseph. I have located where Clara, and several of their children and spouses are buried, but not Joseph. It's like he vanishes into thin air. I narrowed down the year of his death between 1880 and 1885. Clara is listed as a 'widow' on an 1885 city directory for St. Louis, but that is as close as I have been able to get it. Clara goes on to remarry in 1888 and she dies in 1907.I have searched for steamboat accidents during the years of 1880-1885, but came up empty. I contacted the Catholic Archives in St. Louis months ago, trying to determine if they might have a death record for him, but I never heard back. I have made contact with decendents from three of their children, but they knew nothing that could help or shed any light on what became of Joseph (two of the seven children had no children of their own, and I have been unable to determine if the middle daughter's son had any children of his own. None are listed in his obituary. So I have pretty much 'exhausted' trying to find information from the decendents of Joseph and Clara's children. My only hope is in finding extended family members of Joseph and Clara, haven't had any success so far.)
I forgot to mention a couple of things. I have been unable to locate Joseph on a ship's manifest. I am not completely sure how to spell the name or which way it would have been spelled when he first came to America. On the marriage record his name is spelled Boehles (pronounced the same as Bayless). I believe he came from Alsace-Lorraine, France as that is what is listed on one of the census records. I have been able to determine that the name Boehles comes from that part of France, just haven't been able to tie Joseph with a particular family.
Any help would be greatly appreciated!
Jennifer