I am trying to find information on my great-great-grandfather James Graham. The only record I have of him (that I am sure is him, at least) is from the 1881 Census of Canada. The family was living in Hochelaga, Quebec, Canada. The record states that he was born in 1854 in the United States. He is listed with his wife Elisabeth (my great-great-grandmother Catherine Elizabeth Winters, who usually went by her middle name), born in 1860 in the United States (I have the birthdate 12 November 1861 for her) and daughter Catherine (my great-grandmother Kathleen Graham, whose birth name may have been Catherine), born in 1879 (I have the birthdate 31 October 1879 for her). The 1881 Census of Canada says that she was born in Quebec, but later U.S. censuses and all the other documentation that I have on her state that she was born in Illinois, or more specifically, in Chicago. James Graham's occupation is listed as accountant. Their religion is listed as Church of England. However, the family story is that James Graham had been a Catholic priest. I haven't been able to confirm this, and the religion listed in the census is different, but I know the Church of England is similar to the Catholic Church in many ways, and if he left the priesthood he could have left the church too.
On ancestry.com in the Quebec Vital and Church Records (Drouin Collection), 1621 - 1967, I found a marriage record for James Mapplebeck and Elizabeth Winters, widow of the late James Graham of Chicago, U.S. They were married on 21 November 1885. I haven't been able to find a death record for James Graham. I don't even know if he had really died because I know sometimes "widowed" people are actually divorced, and I heard that he supposedly went back to the priesthood. Of course, I don't know if the Catholic church would take him back as a priest after leaving the priesthood, marrying, fathering two children, and leaving the family! James Graham's other child was Garfield Graham, born in Quebec, Canada on 26 May 1882 (or possibly 1881).
I couldn't find a birth certificate for Kathleen Graham. There is no birth certificate for her in Chicago, but since they were not required at the time, she may not have had one. I don't know about church records. I wouldn't even know where to look or what the religion was; according to the family he was Catholic, but the 1881 Census of Canada said Church of England, and if the priest story is true he might have avoided the Catholic Church. Catherine Elizabeth Winters was Scotch Presbyterian. I haven't found a marriage record for James Graham and Catherine Elizabeth Winters. Kathleen's and Garfield's death certificates do not have information on him.
In 1891 James and Elizabeth Mapplebeck and the two children (listed with their stepfather's name) are living in Montreal Centre, Quebec, Canada. According to the 1910 U.S. census record for Garfield Graham, he returned to the U.S. in 1892, and I know his family came back too. In 1900 Elizabeth Mapplebeck and her children are living in Alton, Illinois. She is listed as married, but her husband is not with them. By 1910 they were in St. Louis, Missouri; I know Kathleen was there before 1910 because my grandfather John Boe was born in St. Louis in 1908.
I found a man named James Graham in the 1870 census living in Chicago who is about the right age, and I suspect that he is my ancestor. However, 9 years is a long time and James Graham is a common name, so I can't be sure that he was still living in Chicago in 1879 or that someone else with the same name did not move there after the 1870 census.
Here is the 1870 census record for his household:
William Graham, born in Ireland about 1832
Phoebe Graham, born in Canada about 1835
James Graham, born in New York about 1855
William Graham, born in Ohio about 1860
Jinnie Graham, born in Illinois about 1863
Allie Graham, born in Illinois about 1865
Phoebe Graham, born in Illinois about 1868
George Graham, born in Illinois about 1869
I suspect that this is the right family. They are in Chicago Ward 9, the same ward that Catherine Elizabeth Winters was living in in 1870. This James Graham is the one closest in age to my ancestor (although I know census birth years can be wrong). His mother was born in Canada; if there were family members still in Canada it could explain why my family moved to Quebec. Also, although it may be a coincidence, this James Graham was born in New York, and although Catherine Elizabeth Winters was living in Chicago by 1870, she was born in Tonawanda, Erie, New York; maybe the Graham and Winters families knew each other for a long time.
There is also a James Graham living in Chicago Ward 8, born around 1852, but he was born in Scotland. There is another James Graham in Chicago Ward 10, and another in Chicago Ward 16, both born in Illinois, but one was born around 1859 and the other was born around 1860 so they are probably too young to be my ancestor. There are other James Grahams in Chicago in 1870 too, born around 1800, 1824, 1831, 1842, 1844, 1846, and 1848. Some of these men are definitely too old to be my ancestor, and if all the 1870 and 1881 census records are reasonably accurate all of these men are too old. But it does show how common the name was, so someone else with the name could have moved to Chicago between 1870 and 1879.
I found the family of the man I suspect is my ancestor in the 1860 U.S. census. Here is the census record for the household. They are living in Sandusky, Erie, Ohio.
Wm Graham, born in Scotland about 1832
Pheba Graham, born in England about 1834
Jonne Graham, born in New York about 1856 (this has to be James Graham; the name is hard to read in the original census record)
Wm Graham, born in Ohio about 1859
John Gleason, born in Ireland about 1837
Daniel Gleason, born in Ireland about 1841
Different birthplaces are given for the parents in each census, but even if the mother was born in England and not in Canada, she may have lived in Canada. I don't know if the Gleasons were related or not. According to the 1860 census none of the Grahams were born in Ireland, but the 1870 census says that William Graham was born in Ireland.
I can't find any of the family in Chicago in 1880. I also looked for them in Quebec in 1881 and could not find them (except for James Graham and his wife and daughter).
I really think this is the right family, but I can't prove it. I also don't know when James Graham died. If anyone can help with this elusive ancestor I would appreciate it!